Several inaccuracies.
timespace wrote:also, theoretically if someone had entered the pull of a black hole, even if we didnt lose contact they would be ripped apart.
It depends. If you were sufficiently far away from a black hole, you would be able to orbit it, just as you would orbit any other massive object. In fact, the current consensus is that we're orbiting a black hole right now; the supermassive black hole at the center of the Milky Way. And of course, if you were really far away, you wouldn't notice the black hole at all (which we didn't, until the last century or so).
Now, what you probably have in mind is what happens when an observer falls into a black hole. In that case, people on Earth (or any other place a safe distance from the black hole) would eventually lose contact with the observer when the observer crossed the event horizon, since no communications could escape the event horizon.
And yes, at some point, the observer would get torn apart by tidal forces. But I'll get to that later.
timespace wrote:If your feet were to enter the hole's pull first, it would have more mass than your upper body
No. Your feet would be closer to the singularity; therefore the gravitational force on your feet would be greater than the gravitational force on your upper body.
timespace wrote:and it would travel at a greater speed than your upper body
A greater speed? Speed with respect to what? The correct statement is that your feet's acceleration towards the singularity would be greater than the acceleration of your upper body. For small accelerations, your body can counterract this net acceleration, but eventually, the net acceleration would exceed the tensile strength of your body, tearing you apart.
But note that this effect is not caused by the strength of the gravitational field, but rather the difference in strength between the gravitational field at your feet and at your head.
Also note that we expect the gravitational field to be continuous, the smaller you are, the longer you will survive.
timespace wrote:and you can form your own images (correct me if im wrong)
:? I don't really know what you're trying to say here.